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Thursday 1 December 2011

December again!

I can't believe it is December again!

The year really has flown by - the past 11 months have been chaotic, and things aren't likely to ease up any time soon. In fact I'd say the last few years have been hectic.

Hence my blogging has been even more infrequent than usual. So, I figured I'd write up the years' events now while I get the chance.

Good Stuff
  • 46 mile charity walk in April - absolutely knackering but as a group we raised over £11,000 for charity
  • Property stuff (porch extension, solar panels added, interior doors to be replaced - all good stuff but expensive too!)
  • Spent a long weekend in Euro-Disney -arriving in time for all the Christmas decorations (just like last year)
  • the launch of my new website, www.norfolkplaces.com - about all the great things to see and do in Norfolk. the site is still in its infancy but please visit and come back regularly!
  • Luke getting the role of a king in the school play (he really wants to be an actor so this migt encourage him)
  • Managing to cut Cola out of my diet

Bad Stuff
  • Got a rejection for a really good story - most disappointing thing was the agents (won't name and shame them) claimed it would only take a 2-4 weeks to come back - in the end I had to chase them several times and it took them abut 8months to eventually respond
  • The disappearance of an animator who wanted me to write scripts for an animation series. After writing the first episode and some outlines for several more all communication ceased - I can only assume he's emigrated to Panama or has passed on to the afterworld! This was a shame because I've always fancied myself as a scriptwriter
  • Our car is in frequent need of repair, which ahs probably cost more than the value of the bloody thing this year
  • Work, work, work!
  • Idiots rioting in the UK
  • People living in cloud-cuckoo-land going on strike in the UK
Hopes for the New Year
  • A successful year for www.norfolkplaces.com
  • A decent pay increase! (Unlikely seeing as this has been non-existent for the last 4 years...)
  • A bonus (see above!)
  • Some training budget being made avaialble so I can improve my core skills
  • Hopes for democracy, fredom of speech and enlightenment in the Arab world
  • Recovery of the world economy (especially the UK!)
  • Hope that Luke might finally give in to my nagging and join a football or tennis club!
  • Hope Ben enjoys starting school!

As usual I'll probably think of more to add to this list and will update when I get a moment. Unforutnately I now have to go and do some domestic chores.

Friday 30 September 2011

What goes on in the minds of little boys....

...when one of them suddenly decides to say "ah, chippy chippy chippy!" (in an imitating snoring way) the other finds it hilarious, copies it and returns the sound louder, which makes the other start laughing hysterically, and it all spirals on and on and on for several minutes?

I don't know and I don't think they do either. Sometimes it's funny, well, at first. But not when it escalates....grrhh!

One hypothesis is that perhaps it's the little ones love of chips (as in the ones that go nicely with fish, especially with lashings of salt, vinegar and tomato sauce). Afterall, I think he dreams of dipping chips in ketchup.

Anyway, I'm tired so...[fake yawn]....ah, chippy, chippy, chippy....


Monday 26 September 2011

Brian Wilson

I went to see Brian Wilson at the Royal Festival Hall in London on 17th September and it was a brilliant gig.

I saw Brian and his band a few years ago when they toured Smile, which was out of this world, and his "reimagines Gershwin" material is great too.
A good hour and half of Beach Boys/Brian Wilson material really was the icing on the cake for everyone there - the place really was rocking!

Here's a few videos of some of the songs from that night. Enjoy!









Friday 12 August 2011

It's been a while...

Too long, I know, and I'm sorry.

I'll try to be a better blogger, but I've so much going on in life that it's hard to get time to blog.

I guess I should update y'all on how the charity walk went at the end of April. Well, it was great fun, albeit pretty knackering!

I was supposed to camp at the end of the first day. However, I put my stuff in the back of someone's car in the morning, but he had to go to hospital with heat-stroke and dehydration. So, I had to go home to rest - which was probably a good thing because I got all my blisters treated (i.e popped), had a hot bath and was ready to go again!
We're still waiting on final totals but I've heard on the grapevine that we've raised over £10,000 ($16,000) to share between East Anglian Children's Hospices and the Neo-Natal unit at the Norfolk&Norwich Hospital. Not bad, eh?

Monday 27 June 2011

Thursday 12 May 2011

Monday 2 May 2011

Sore feet - blister-popping-tastic!

After walking a tremendous distance across the weekend my feet are now covered in blisters. They built up gradually over the 2 days, but all of them developed on the first day while wearing "1000mile socks" -which are guaranteed to stop blisters developing. So, I think I can say with reasonable assurance that "1000mile socks"don't work!

However, the pain was well worth it and I am so proud of everyone who took part, especially my friends Simon and Claire who organised the walk in memory of the little boy, Harrison.

Monday 25 April 2011

Kids say the darnedest things

The setting: McDonalds

Me: What meat is in your chicken nuggets?

Ben: Huh?

Me: Are you eating chicken?

Ben: (laughs) No! We don't eat animals. We eat food!

Of course, it could've been a comment about the meat content (or lack of) in Mcdonalds.....

Wednesday 20 April 2011

Pop Post Chart

Just been looking at my blog stats, and since I started in 2007 the most popular posts have been:-

Things to know about Norwich (22/09/2009)
Thomas and his Friends Day & Bressingham Steam Museum (20/08/2007)
I'm reliably informed (09/09/2010)
Triple-decker bus! (30/05/2009)

I obvioulsy haven't written anything of great interest this year because no article has made the top ten yet.

Tuesday 19 April 2011

Why Charities are important

Charity - defined as the practice of benevolent giving and caring

The British nation has always been big on charity. For a nation of high taxes, in the main most people still give to charity on a regular basis.

In 2007/8 charity donations peaked at £11.3 billion from the British public. Although it came down a bit in 2008/9 (still £10.6 billion) the figure for 2010 is expected to be close to the peak, and in 2011 it will probably be even higher.

I'm experiencing the generosity of my fellow citizens right now as I raise funds via a sponsored walk.

Of course, not everyone has been able to donate, but they have wished me well with the event and their good wishes are invaluable too. Indeed there are many valid reasons why people can't donate, such as:-
  • Can't afford to - times are difficult and everyone's disposable income varies 
  • Recently donated to something else (as I said, we're a charitable bunch so there will always be someone you know fundraising)
  • Against their beliefs/principles - your charity choice may not be everyone's cup of tea (e.g. not sure I'd donate if someone wanted to raise funds to build a statue of Gordon Brown!)
Yep, okay there might be the odd one who won't offer a reason, snapping out a vitriolic "no" then returning to nibbling on a piece of coal. Fair enough, totally acceptable.
However, if they then go on to recite a bitter Socialist Worker diatribe claiming the State should provide everything and that by raising funds for a charity just reinforces the Government's position of avoiding paying for stuff then, sorry, that is not on.

To start with, such a statement is either a) case of turrets where all they can spout is garbage b) they like the sound of their own voice but still only speak garbage c) they've heard/read someone else's view which happens to be garbage but it had some big words in itd) it's how they were brought up (religious/social/racial filter) e) they have been unsuccessful in a fundraising event due to their low popularity and this has left them embittered.

Whatever the reason behind such a statement it is actually similar to the filtered/blinkered views of many people  brought up within a religion. Is there a touch of irony here? Many religions have charitable acts as a key characteristic. Note: this is neither a pop at or a justification of religion, just a statement of fact

Unfortunately for anyone indulging in such a rant only proves what most people think - that they are an utter vacuous wanker (excuse my, ahem, French)

I would certainly not enter such a discussion without forethought, instead I prefer to mull it over and respond in a measured and thoughtful way instead of spewing up lunch as a quickfire response.

Firstly, I'd like to express the view that a mixture of private charitable functions and Government managed organisations are required. Government can't possibly manage or provide everything. The budget deficit has been building up for years - adding more burden on to the State is simply not feasible.
And if it were to be decided that Government could raise taxes specifically to take on the burden of charity, the cost would be a lot greater than the £11.3 Billion raised because administration by the state would be a lot greater (charities rely on volunteers or low-paid staff).
So, the cost would probably be between £20-30 billion, so that could by up to £1150 more tax per year for the income tax payers. and who would be worse hit? The poor. So, claiming the Government should deliver everything - what a daft thing to say!

So, what's good about money Charity instead of Government provision? well, here's some big hitters:-
  • Participation by choice - if you don't want to donate to a particular charity that is your choice.
  • A fairer "charity tax" - the poor don't have to donate, and the rich can donate as much as they like (whether they do or not is a different question)
  • Fairer distribution - choose who you want funds to go to rather than a Government algorithm
  • The virtue of participation - how good does it feel to volunteer at a charity shop, or to take part in a fundraiser? Flamin' great!
  • Helps people achieve closure - if a loved one has died you want to help a particular cause and in doing so it helps you to move on whilst retaining a connection
  • Localisation - donate locally and see the impact in your community
  • Not subject to political whims!
  • Helps causes that simply would not get Government funding - do you really think something like "make a wish" would ever get Government funding for what it does? 
  • Expertise in certain fields can develop without Government red-tape
  • It enables companies to get involved in the community too
 The RNLI is a great example of a charity that is doing a damn fine job without Government funding- in fact they refused it for some of the reasons I cited above.

Okay, so in a Utopian world Governments could write a cheque and life-threatening diseases and poverty would be cured, Hospitals would have every piece of equipment required, and all them brave people who thought for our freedom from Hitler and other Fundamentalists weren't actually wounded, traumatised or killed. But that's not the case. We have massive public debts, and inefficient bodies (such as the NHS) that continue to overburden the taxpayer - adding extra tax burden on the public or increasing debt won't solve anything.

So, I think in this brief article I've surmised why Charities should be kept separate from Government and why anyone who may have spat an opinion to the contrary has not thought it through and is a plonker.

I certainly think Charities could improve their own organisations through shared administration and other means, but they deliver more independently than they could via Government. And if it was a cheque-writing Government with no concept of accountability even less would be delivered.

Wednesday 13 April 2011

Harrison's Walk

On 30th April/1st May I’m walking 46.3miles with a group of friends along Peddars Way in Norfolk to raise funds in memory of Harrison Nicholl, who died when he was only 3 days old in February 2010.

In the words of Harrison’s Mum, Claire, here’s why we're doing it:-

Quidenham Children's Hospice (EACH)
"Why" - Some of you may or may not have heard of them. They are a registered charity that cares for children and young people with life-threatening conditions and complex healthcare needs - They also offer bereavement support which we have been receiving since Harrison died and they have been absolutely wonderful. They rely on donations and they need £4million to deliver their services this year.

The Neo-Natal Intensive Care Unit at The Norfolk & Norwich Hospital.
"Why" - Harrison was cared for in the unit and we can not thank them enough for all of their care and attention, not just to Harrison but to myself and Simon (Harrison’s Dad). With their help and support we got to spend 3 precious days with him, we got to change his nappy, have lots of cuddles, give him his 1st bath, dress him in his first little outfit and we were even able to have him Christened.

On Harrison's final day with us we were taken to a private room where we were able to spend some time as a family on our own without all of the machines bleeping around us.

We want to raise money for a portable ventilator for this room. If the unit had one of these when Harrison was there we would have been able to spend more time with him on our own in private. I would love to help supply one of these machines so that any other parent's going through such an horrendous time are able to spend as much precious time with their little ones as possible.

50% of the funds raised will go to EACH and 50% to NNUH Neo-Natal Unit. We're only able to use the online fundraising pages for EACH but we're also collecting sponsorship via manual sponsorship forms so the money raised will be apportioned to make sure we have the 50/50 split.

If you'd like to donate please visit my fundraising page by clicking this link


Sunday 10 April 2011

Feedback

One of the most annoying things about eBay is there is no comeuppance for buyers who do not leave feedback. I recently sold an item to someone who I later found out had not left feedback for anyone for 2 years, yet this blighter was a frequent buyer on eBay.

So, whilst this 23yr old (I'm guessing) job-shy bloke has built his feedback score, everyone who has sent an item to him in the North East have not received the positive feedback they deserve. It's sorely tempting to email eBay suggesting this individual is not playing by the book but I doubt it will make a difference.

Instead, I will simply check future buyers and if they have similar attitudes then I will not to leave feedback for them until positive feedback is received.

I will also block this individual from making future purchases from me. What goes around comes around.

On a positive note, Albion beat this bloke's hometown team 3-2 to move us towards saftety, and leave the Mackems looking over their shoulders towards the footy elite trapdoor. Get in!!!!!

Wednesday 6 April 2011

Kick it up a notch

Recently I've been listening to classic New Order tracks - a lot!

So, I've posted the timeless True Faith. Why choose this well known track instead of publicising a lesser known tune? Well, George Michael recently released a terrible cover of it (but it was to raise money for Comic Relief so some goof came from it) so I chose this track to remind everyone what a superb song it is.

Friday 25 March 2011

Football skills

Just bought a Futsal ball and a Futebol de Salao for the boys.

These smaller heavier balls should help with development of Football skills. If works for the Brazilians then it can work in England, the home of Football!!!



















Thursday 24 February 2011

What I'd like....

There's loads of stuff I'd like to buy as a treat for myself, but the one thing I am very tempted by is a Kindle (or indeed any e-book reader).

However, as I don't have much time for reading (or anything!) at the moment, I guess it'll have to stay on my wish list.

Sunday 20 February 2011

Toy Story

Ever since we went to Disneyland Paris in mid-November Ben has become a fan of Toy Story. Buzz Lightyear is his favourite.

Some of the rides at DLP are based on Toy Story so Ben asked what the characters names were. Since then he his reference to the "gang" receives titters of laughter and, of course, attempts to correct the error. So, here's a picture of......



STINKY DOG!


This gave us a great Christmas present idea - a pull-along Slinky Dog toy.

Monday 14 February 2011

Saturday 5 February 2011

Words

I have no desire to blog at the moment. In fact I can't get the inspiration to much creative stuff at the moment.

The reasons (in no particular order):-
- Work has melted my brain and leaves me little free-time to do anything other than breathe, eat or go to the loo
- My back/leg/hip still cause significant discomfort
- I'm waiting for a couple of story responses (1 from an Agent and another from a publisher) that I suspect will never turn up
- Kids are too loud
- It's hard to concentrate when WBA FC are on the verge of another relegation
- There seems to be a large degree of futility to everything

I'm unlikely to ever get the enthusiasm to put pen to paper to write stories ever again. After all, the story with the publisher has been with them for over a year, so I think I can safely write that one off. This is on the back of many rejections over the years.
If I don't hear back from the agent by April 5th it will have been 6 months, at which point I'll draw my writing career to an end. Send a follow up letter? Nah, no point. So, there we have it; a date has been set for an end to approximately 20 years of my on/off writing career.

I'm hoping this "funk" goes soon because I have business case to write (but looking back on the final bullet point above, why bother?)

Sunday 16 January 2011

In need of a horse tranquiliser!

Fro two weeks I've been struggling with lower back and upper leg pains. I hoped it would go away. It has not. And today is the worst it has been.

At the moment I cannot sit down, stand up, lie down, or in fact do anything without excruciating pain.

In the words of the Verve, the drugs don't work. In fact, I think the only thing that might help numb the pain would be alcohol. However, every January (and sometimes February) I give up the booze in a New Year health kick. So, it's off to the Doctors tomorrow to see what they can do. As guns are illegal in the UK I'm pretty sure they won't put me out of my misery!!!! :-)